A trip home with my Dad.

Underhammer

Old Mossy Horns
My Dad has been fighting cancer of different sorts for a couple decades now, a heart condition, COPD, and complications from Agent Orange and radiation exposure (he worked in the Corp of Engineers - Nuclear program). He's 84.

It appears that the cancer has finally gotten the better of him. Doctor's diagnosed leukemia and have given him anywhere from 1 day to a couple months, given his history.

Tomorrow morning I am driving him to his childhood home to see the old homeplace and to visit his sister (his last remaining sibling), probably for the last time.

He's been up and down so much lately I don't know if he'll make the entire trip, but this is what he wants. So I will take him.

God has gotten me out of a lot of tough spots before so I am good with it as long as he is.

Clearly, given Dad's history, God has been with him as well. But eventually, our time comes due.

I just hope the Almighty will make my Dad's last trip home meaningful, and that ultimately, he takes him in with the peace and dignity deserving of a tired old soldier that knows he can't fight what's ahead of him any longer, whenever that may come to pass.

A personal confession to of all of you that have ever asked for prayers before, I don't know if you really needed to see a response or not, but I assure you, for all that was asked, I've asked God for whatever mercy and comfort he could give.

I've been hurting for a while with the situation, but you probably couldn't tell any difference in my otherwise happy go lucky demeanor. I fully intend to keep on keeping on until he's gone. Then we'll see if I tank.

Anyway, would appreciate your thoughts for my Dad, guys.
 

TobyScreams

Twelve Pointer
I’ll be praying for all involved.

No “response” is needed. It’s understood that there are good folks here that’ll do what they can even if they just hit the “like” and keep scrolling.

If you’re like me and could use reminders, I encourage everyone of our prayer warriors to “watch” this entire sub forum if you haven’t already.
 

roundball

Old Mossy Horns
Contributor
My Dad has been fighting cancer of different sorts for a couple decades now, a heart condition, COPD, and complications from Agent Orange and radiation exposure (he worked in the Corp of Engineers - Nuclear program). He's 84.

It appears that the cancer has finally gotten the better of him. Doctor's diagnosed leukemia and have given him anywhere from 1 day to a couple months, given his history.

Tomorrow morning I am driving him to his childhood home to see the old homeplace and to visit his sister (his last remaining sibling), probably for the last time.

He's been up and down so much lately I don't know if he'll make the entire trip, but this is what he wants. So I will take him.

God has gotten me out of a lot of tough spots before so I am good with it as long as he is.

Clearly, given Dad's history, God has been with him as well. But eventually, our time comes due.

I just hope the Almighty will make my Dad's last trip home meaningful, and that ultimately, he takes him in with the peace and dignity deserving of a tired old soldier that knows he can't fight what's ahead of him any longer, whenever that may come to pass.

A personal confession to of all of you that have ever asked for prayers before, I don't know if you really needed to see a response or not, but I assure you, for all that was asked, I've asked God for whatever mercy and comfort he could give.

I've been hurting for a while with the situation, but you probably couldn't tell any difference in my otherwise happy go lucky demeanor. I fully intend to keep on keeping on until he's gone. Then we'll see if I tank.

Anyway, would appreciate your thoughts for my Dad, guys.
Awfully glad you're able to be with him through this...thoughts are with him, you, & family
 

TheCloudX

Ten Pointer
Contributor
Praying for you, your dad, and family surveyor.

Lost my mom to cancer years ago. I know what you mean by tanking. If you need an ear, feel free to reach out.
 

bwfarms

Old Mossy Horns
I've been hurting for a while with the situation, but you probably couldn't tell any difference in my otherwise happy go lucky demeanor. I fully intend to keep on keeping on until he's gone. Then we'll see if I tank.

Not a light situation. Each individual handles things differently. It’s okay to be sad but solace can be had in the waning days. If the tanking becomes harmful do reach out to anyone.
 

Underhammer

Old Mossy Horns
Not a light situation. Each individual handles things differently. It’s okay to be sad but solace can be had in the waning days. If the tanking becomes harmful do reach out to anyone.
Thanks. Not worried about harmful, but we moved here 25+ years ago just to be near him after the heart attack. My thoughts about what next may be a tank.
 

Underhammer

Old Mossy Horns
It's been a good 25 years.

I remember when him and I fixed my stepdaughter's Volvo.

Never heard such language out of him, and without cursing, even....
 

brownisdown

Twelve Pointer
Contributor
You are a good man and even better son! This trip will likely be the hardest but most heart comforting ever in God's grand plan. I'll pray for peace that surpasses all understanding and the never ending comfort of the holy spirit.

In the coming days of inevitable sadness and grieving I hope that your dad's life and testimony shines bright. Even though we have never met in person I thoroughly enjoy your posts and great spirit. Lean on us as needed anytime.
 

YanceyGreenhorn

Still Not a Moderator
Hate to hear that, Jeff. I admire your ability, and loyalty, to be there for him. My uncle did something similar for Grandad shortly before his death. The end result was one of the family’s most memorable stories about him. You’ve got my number, holler if ya need anything. I might not know much, but grief is a very familiar thing to me. Hang in there.
 

valetroutfisherman

Ten Pointer
Prayers for yall.
Went thru something similar with my wife's dad in Nov. His health was failing quick, at 78, He was at Pardee in Hendersonville, ( great staff there). Wanted to got home and be at his house again, docs said, and told him he might not make the trip to Little Canada, Sugar Creek Gap, area. He made it, it was a blessing. .
 

Helium

Old Mossy Horns
My Dad has been fighting cancer of different sorts for a couple decades now, a heart condition, COPD, and complications from Agent Orange and radiation exposure (he worked in the Corp of Engineers - Nuclear program). He's 84.

It appears that the cancer has finally gotten the better of him. Doctor's diagnosed leukemia and have given him anywhere from 1 day to a couple months, given his history.

Tomorrow morning I am driving him to his childhood home to see the old homeplace and to visit his sister (his last remaining sibling), probably for the last time.

He's been up and down so much lately I don't know if he'll make the entire trip, but this is what he wants. So I will take him.

God has gotten me out of a lot of tough spots before so I am good with it as long as he is.

Clearly, given Dad's history, God has been with him as well. But eventually, our time comes due.

I just hope the Almighty will make my Dad's last trip home meaningful, and that ultimately, he takes him in with the peace and dignity deserving of a tired old soldier that knows he can't fight what's ahead of him any longer, whenever that may come to pass.

A personal confession to of all of you that have ever asked for prayers before, I don't know if you really needed to see a response or not, but I assure you, for all that was asked, I've asked God for whatever mercy and comfort he could give.

I've been hurting for a while with the situation, but you probably couldn't tell any difference in my otherwise happy go lucky demeanor. I fully intend to keep on keeping on until he's gone. Then we'll see if I tank.

Anyway, would appreciate your thoughts for my Dad, guys.
Prayers! Enjoy the time w your dad
 
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